My past did not exactly go as I had planned, but as they say, everything happens just the way it is supposed to...

As an emotional abuse graduate, I know what it feels like to be alone, to be the only one who saw what was really going on, and to be the one who felt like something was wrong with me.

My mission is to provide hope, healing and freedom to those whose lives have been affected by toxic relationships. To provide education to strengthen the confidence and self-worth of those who are torn down, who are trapped within, and who are healing from this cycle. And...to be a happy inspiration of hope for others. 

I'm Dr. Heidi— A Toxic Relationship Healing & Awareness Specialist. And, I help people get out, heal, and recover from toxic relationship + emotional abuse. 

Looking back, I wouldn’t change a thing. My past has given me the privilege to educate and guide those who may be walking a similar path in search of their freedom.

My coaching programs developed themselves through the journey of my recovery from a long-standing toxic relationship. I am grateful to be able to use my expertise along with my professional health care background  to help those who find themselves struggling to make changes both in and after the toxic relationship.

Today, I educate and lead people in self-acceptance & making themselves a priority. This includes those who have fallen victim to or have been involved in the toxic relationship or emotional abuse cycle. Freeing oneself from the prison of the toxic relationship can seem nearly impossible for those trapped within the abusive cycle. We know that isolation is a common weapon used by a toxic person to make others feel they are alone and have no other options but to remain where they are.
I assure you, you are not alone.

As an emotional abuse graduate, I know what it feels like to be alone, to be the only one who sees what happens behind the closed doors, and to be the one who feels like there is something to be fixed in themselves for things to get better.

 I believe 100% that had I been aware of the characteristics of the toxic personality and the motivation behind them, and had a support system to draw strength from, I could have saved myself years of struggling, as I would have been equipped with the knowledge and accountability to better handle my situation.

Today, I know that leaving a relationship that has changed you does not mean you will just magically change back. You, your mind, & your body were trained to keep you safe, and moving forward there will continue to be struggles inside yourself and in other relationships if there is not a focused investment in your personal healing.

Today, I help those who struggle with making themselves a priority.... 

Fast facts. . .

podcast episodes recorded

234+

happy clients

500+

podcast reviews

500+

Pairs of boots

36+

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I WAS RAISED...

SOMETHING I DO EVERYDAY...

FAVORITE SNACK...

OUT OF THE ORDINARY...

STRENGTH...

HAPPIEST WHEN...

FAMILY... 

FAVORITE COCKTAIL...

WHERE I SPEND MOST OF MY TIME IF NOT AT HOME...

SOMETHING I SWORE I WOULDN'T DO AGAIN BUT AM SO GLAD THAT I DID... 

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On a Dairy Farm

LAUGH

Chicken in a biscuit & Black Licorice

I have my pro figure card (Body-Building)

Inspiring Others

I am with My Hot Husband

Middle of 3 Sisters, Have Three Daughters (that's a lot of tampons!) 

I am a whiskey girl

37 and counting!

On My Boat "THE SHADY LADY"

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Hurricane Heidi (I have a lot of energy) 

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“Dr. Heidi puts together amazing programs…I would pay 3 times the fee to attend again.  My life is forever changed, thank you Dr. Heidi” Past Client
— Marie S.

"My Life Is Forever Changed!"

"I can not express how much this podcast has changed my life. She has given me the strength to see for the first time in my life the truth and it has been awakening. This is a must for anyone dealing with a toxic relationship of any degree. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

☆☆☆☆☆" — Jenn H.

"It's been an awakening!"

"Dr Heidi’s words were a lifesaver, helping me to sort out my abusive relationship and recognize that it truly was toxic. I recommend this podcast to everyone I talk to who is questioning whether or not their relationship is healthy."

☆☆☆☆☆ Melissa C.

"Recommend to anyone questioning if a relationship is healthy"

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